渴望得到有內涵有溝通有遠見的愛情

做永不倒下的女強人好累 ;(

 

 唔知仲有無人知道呢個網既存在呢?

其實..我都想問.

 According to Attachment theory, which formulated by developmental psychologist John Bowlby, attachment refers to the close and emotional bond that develops between infants and their caregivers. In 1978, Mary Ainsworth designed a lab procedure called “Strange Situation” (i.e. exposing an infant to a series of leave-takings and returns of the mother and a stranger), and she identified four attachment styles namely secure, avoidant, anxious-ambivalent and disorganized-disoriented. Each attachment patterns is associated with certain characteristic patterns of behavior when infants are put into the Strange Situation. For example, secure infants visibly upset when mother leaves, accept comfort and go back to exploration after mother’s return while anxious-ambivalent infants show protest when mother leaves and remains upset and difficult to console when she returns. She also pointed out that the attachment pattern of an infant depends on the quality of care they have received. For instance, mother of secure infants were loving, warm, sensitive to their infant’s need, and responsive to the infant’s attempts at communication while mothers of ambivalent babies tried to be responsive but were inconsistent and insensitive to the baby’s actions. On the other hand, researchers Hazen and Shaver (1987) suggests that early attachments can help predict patterns of behavior in adulthood and have a serious impact on later relationships. Failure to form secure attachments early in life can have a negative impact on behavior in later childhood and throughout the life. For example, those who are securely attached in childhood tend to have good self-esteem, strong romantic relationships, and the ability to self-disclose to others.

我想自己可以漂亮一點
我想自己心地也可以漂亮點
我想自己可以不用怕不用擔心不用自卑
我想我們可以永遠在一起

我我我...都只是想自己="=
停留在pre-op (stage 2)-->egocentrism
有想過他的感受ma?

結論...
對不起 我不夠漂亮.....(又來了= ="")